S is for: Soul Archetypes
This post is part of a series I’m so excited about: “The ABC’s of What I’ve Learned as a Medium and Intuitive Healer.” This is my full-time career, and I am thrilled for the opportunity to share what I’ve learned!
*I say Spirit to mean God, the Universe, the Cosmos - I use these phrases interchangeably for all enlightened beings who help us. I use “greater Spirit” or “Spirit” to mean everything out there, taking care of and managing in here: Them as a group and concept. You may choose to substitute the word “Spirit” with Jesus, Archangel Michael, Allah, Lakshmi, Kuan Yin, The Universe, The Cosmos, or about a billion other names, and it doesn’t matter. Spirit is all this and so much more than we can ever understand. They don’t care what you call them so long as you give them the same respect they give you. I work with these beings closely, as they are an integral part of my practice and career. It is a relationship I heavily encourage everyone to build, as it enhances every aspect of our physical lives and spiritual practice.*
Our Soul Archetypes
Soul archetypes have grown to mean so much to me, it almost feels impossible to know where to begin! I have come to view everything in life through this lens, and I wouldn't know how to stop, now.
Our soul archetype is how our soul was created - it is who we are, whether actively incarnated or in between lifetimes.
Soul archetypes are my personal discovery, and they came to me through spirit guide readings! When I first began to do spirit guide readings, spirit guides would each give me one of fifteen archetypes for themselves, to give the person receiving the reading the best lens through which to view the guide. I thought they were describing their personality, but it is so much more than that. Over time, Spirit explained it isn't just our guides, but every being with a soul was created into these archetypes.
For the past couple years, I have worked to share the soul archetypes with my clients, because having an understanding of ours can change everything about the way we operate! Someone who is an archetypal Ruler will simply not have the same in-balance or out-of-balance traits as someone who is an archetypal Lover. Understanding who we are on this level helps us understand how to put our best foot forward.
Distinguishing Between Soul Archetypes and Personality
It’s easy to want to tie these archetypes to our personality, so it’s great to begin with distinguishing between the two.
Our personality is made up of many things, but mostly a combination of experiences from this lifetime. When we're children, our parents reward our behaviors which they like and frown upon the behaviors which they don't, as do our siblings, teachers, school friends, etc., and our personality is typically made of the result of these experiences, along with our past-life trauma and experiences, and our soul archetype kind of sits underneath all that.
Our soul’s archetype is deeper than our personality, and deeper than our astrological sign, which changes from lifetime to lifetime. It is how we were created: who we are and what we are capable of rests within these archetypes. This is on a soul level - in every moment which our soul exists, we will be the same, archetypally, no matter which body we take on.
When I meet someone who shares my archetype, it's immediately apparent. But we don't often or regularly share many personality traits! While someone who shares my soul archetype is likely to have certain personality quirks like mine, their personality is a combination of their archetype, their experiences, and their trauma from this lifetime and others, as is mine. We're each unique individuals, we just share these common traits underneath.
Why It Matters
On a soul level, during every lifetime, we will have specific in-balance and out-of-balance traits based on these archetypes, regardless of our experiences. A Patience soul is very different when their energy is off than a Trickster soul when their energy is off. We each go out-of-balance in very specific ways, and this is tied to our soul's archetype. This cannot be changed or adapted, but we can be! When we know the in- and out-of-balance traits which are likely to present themselves in us, we can choose to live in a way which creates the most equilibrium for us personally. We can learn to recognize our most positive soul attributes and nurture and empower them. We can recognize our out-of-balance traits, so we can see when we’re slipping out, and correct our energy a little sooner.
You’ll notice the in and out-of-balance habits look a lot like opposites, and many wonder how this could be. The answer is that it really must be this way! Just like hot and cold are not really opposites, but two different ends of the spectrum of temperature (so one could not exist without the other), we must hold opposite ends of an energetic spectrum within ourselves. Someone who is incredibly kind and moderate in-balance is likely to be difficult and create disharmony when out-of-balance. Someone who is nurturing in-balance will be aloof and cold when out-of-balance. We simply must hold both ends of an energetic spectrum. This is a huge gift, because we can recognize the habits we don't like and know when we are falling away from living as our highest self.
We are each the universe experiencing itself many ways over. We each have a spark of the Creator, the Universe, inside us, and in that way as well as others, we are truly made of star stuff. These archetypes link us to who we’ve always been in a different way than anything can, and discovering them has been one of the most rewarding joys of my career!
The Archetypes and Their In- and Out-Of-Balance Characteristics
I find that some archetypes are very unlikely to make their way to psychic readings or energy work, which I find so fascinating! I don't want to imply any hierarchy whatsoever, so I am going to order these archetypes in the order which I work with them most often.
I named them, and I am incredibly open to discussion from those who feel theirs has been named inadequately. I have been offering this information to my clients for years now, and I have loved having these discussions with them! Several of my more passionate clients helped me name a few of these, and I am so grateful. With each, I also asked Spirit if they felt the name captured the essence of the archetype, as even deities fit into these archetypes and they’re very important to them!
Also, if the archetype belongs to you, you will recognize *every* single one of the in- and out-of-balance traits as your own, even if on very small scales or degrees. One who has lived mostly in-balance can still see the ways the out-of-balance traits have affected them, even if minimally, and vice versa. These in- and out-of-balance qualities aren't maybes, they're for suresies. When we connect to our archetype, we recognize every single trait on the list.
The Nurturer
In Balance Qualities
In touch with the Divine Feminine and with the best parts of femininity
Capable of extreme creativity (of ideas or art as much as human beings)
Understands unity and is nurturing, loving, and caring as a way of being
Loves unconditionally
Understands unification of the mind, body, and spirit
A loving and good parent or partner
An uplifting and empowering friend
Out of Balance Qualities
Becomes emotionally overwhelmed and shuts down completely
Desperate need for self-care due to complete negligence of themselves and others
Creates a painfully tense atmosphere
Overprotective, especially of their creations or property, etc.
Likely to become completely dependent on others or overly controlling of others
Becomes a negligent (and sometimes mean) parent, partner, and friend
Patience
In Balance Qualities
Being in balance to begin with! Patience souls are naturally balanced and fair
They naturally practice restraint - a Patience soul does not need to be the loudest or most assertive in the room
Patient, kind, and uplifting to others
An incredibly loving and loyal friend, partner, and parent
Easily works toward their purpose
Excellent at combining different things to make unique creations
Very complex and intelligent, and great at complex tasks and training (by which people are often surprised, because Patience souls also don't often brag)
Trusts in their own potential and has faith that they will get where they are trying to go
Out of Balance Qualities
Emotional exhaustion and imbalance
Can behave as if one has mental health problems, such as Bipolar or BPD, though they do not have an illness, their energetic imbalance tends to just mimic these symptoms
Feeds addictions and lifestyle of excess (such as with food, alcohol, drugs, shopping, social media)
Lives in extremes and can’t find the middle ground
Creates disharmony and behaves with extreme impatience
Holds tightly to things which aren't meant for them and has a hard time letting go even of painful situations
Doesn't partake in training or learning and their talent and intelligence remains latent and unused
The Judge
In Balance Qualities
Understands fairness, cause and effect, balance, and law very naturally, to the degree that Judge souls often have a very hard time with those who do not
Behaves with honesty naturally, and acts with wisdom, integrity, objectivity, and accountability
Easily integrates new perspectives
Doesn’t get caught up in their emotions
Sure of their ability to create the life they want
Almost uniquely able to stay away from drastic decisions, all-or-nothing thinking, etc.
Out of Balance Qualities
Behaves unfairly and can be unwilling to take accountability or responsibility (often, at this point, it's not a refusal to take accountability but an inability to see where accountability needs to be taken)
Behaves dishonestly
Emotionally unavailable and sometimes cold to others
Doesn’t understand consequences or see how their actions are leading to negative outcomes
Behaves with injustice and inequity
Engages in black-and-white thinking and loses the gray area
Becomes more likely to engage in infidelity or extreme sexuality which is out of line with authentic feelings
The Alchemist
In Balance Qualities
Naturally skilled and talented - The Alchemist is good at doing well
Picks up new skills and talents with no problem, often on the first try
Excellent ability to manifest, especially once they understand the mechanisms and tools
Incredibly creative and resourceful - they're great at coming up with completely unique solutions to problems
Charismatic & intelligent
Out of Balance Qualities
Lets their potential and talent go to waste, and becomes lazy or has a "justifying reason" for doing so
Negative intentions which can lead to being manipulative or selfish, or in extreme cases, corruption
Unfocused energy which is impossible to coax toward a target
Blocked creative energy
Thinks their way is the only good way (they are usually like this in-balance as well, and it is not always the worst trait, as The Alchemist is often right that their way is the best way to do something. It can just become alienating so one has to watch out)
Argues with others and can become cruel, petty, and vicious in argument
The Ruler
In Balance Qualities
In touch with the Divine Masculine and all good aspects of masculinity
Has a natural sense of healthy leadership and wants to take charge for the good of everyone, not selfishness
Provides structure for themselves and those whom they love
Excellent parents, partners, and friends
Is strategic and thinks things through before taking action
Takes action whenever necessary for themselves and those they love
Understands propelling the self forward
Won't take no for an answer (in the best way)
Out of Balance Qualities
Tendencies toward being selfish
Becomes overly rigid (often in the name of being pragmatic)
Becomes defensive and stubborn, which tends to lead to being controlling
Will find ways to assume power, which when particularly negative, can lead to corruption - the more out-of-balance, the more the Ruler will try to assume power negatively
Moves forward blindly with no idea where they’re going
Cannot hear others’ ideas or understand their viewpoint, and will charge on as if their way is the only way (often, not even out of tyranny - the Ruler genuinely forgets that there are ways to do things other than theirs)
Ignores the viewpoints of even those most important to them
Becomes a controlling and hostile partner, parent, and friend
Courage
In Balance Qualities
Courageous and compassionate, with an incredible sense of quiet inner strength
Graceful but powerful in positions of influence and leadership
Can become incredibly gifted healers whether through modern medicine or energy work, due to their being able to channel with very little ego
Healthy motives, mind, and heart
Loves to work with Spirit and is often a spiritual being from youth
Excellent at surrendering to the bigger picture
Understands aligning life to sacred cycles, which helps with navigating personal cycles
Out of Balance Qualities
Overtaken by self-doubt and self-criticism
Excess (such as with food, alcohol, drugs, shopping, or social media)
Guided by incorrect instincts and can get lost in their more animal self
Lack of self-control and self-destructive impulses
Loses sight of gray area and gets stuck in black and white, and often especially ideas about "right and wrong"
Lacks understanding of signs from the universe and often worries they've been abandoned by Spirit
Rebirth
In Balance Qualities
Easily handles transformation, change, and life's difficulties which take others out
Takes on the concept of death and rebirth in life, so as to transition easily and accept change and new beliefs
Does everything fully - nothing half-assed about it
Loves newfound awareness
Effortlessly handles endings and enjoys new initiations
Easily lets go of what doesn't serve them
Excellent at clearing a path ahead of them when they need to
Out of Balance Qualities
Holds onto the past
Fear of change which can become desperate and overtake life
Clings to sentimental attachments not meant for them
Can become destructive to the self and others
Loses hope, and occasionally tries to strip hope from others
Stays stuck in depression and sadness
Becomes incredibly stubborn and believes they cannot see the way out of a situation
The Monk
In Balance Qualities
Enjoys tradition and creating traditions for their loved ones
Likes learning lessons, education, and new training opportunities
Is an excellent leader or guide and enjoys finding leaders and guides
Moves naturally toward enlightenment and awakening, and can easily live in service of Spirit. I’ve worked with several atheist Monk souls, and they still feel the strong pull to devote themselves to something bigger - a bigger picture or society, politics, etc.
Easily accepts and integrates new paradigms
Has no fear of intuitive abilities, and always knows to listen to their inner voice and higher self
A loving and kind parent and partner
Out of Balance Qualities
Falls into outdated systems or ways of thinking which make it easy to fall into abuse of power or ego-based leadership (such as when we see religious leaders touting harmful and outdated ways of thinking)
Becomes obsessed with their personal soul story and cannot let go or give room for growth
Rebels against society and other people, especially family
Stagnates and refuses to move forward
Loses connection with Spirit and their own inner voice
Speaks when they need to listen
Becomes negligent of partners, friends, and children
The Cycle Keeper
In Balance Qualities
Effortlessly completes what they begin
Minds cycles, especially personal energetic cycles and completely understands living in flow with the universal and natural cycles
Finds joy in wholeness and wellness
Wants happy endings and will work hard to bring them about
Can be very traditionally successful
Easily finds new levels of consciousness and can blend the material and spiritual possibly more than any other archetype
Often loves to see and experience new things, travel broadly, experience new cultures
Loves achievement and victory and will work hard to have a life full of them
Out of Balance Qualities
Lacks follow-through and gives up
Cannot stay focused long enough to complete what they’ve started
Creates delays in plans, often with justifications they know are untrue for why their dreams are not being met
Takes shortcuts
Refuses to find closure
Will obsessively watch others live but be too fearful to join in on the aspects of life they want most
Can lose the connection between reality and imagination
The Lover
In Balance Qualities
Easily makes choices
Understands dualities and gray area
Creates a comfortable, harmonious atmosphere, often through charm, fun, and generally being pleasing to be around
Is a healthy romantic partner and good friend who naturally creates healthy boundaries in all relationships
A good, kind, and devoted parent
Understands unity and allows themselves to fall deeply in healthy love
Naturally inclined toward a balance of masculine and feminine energy
Out of Balance Qualities
Has immense problems with miscommunication, each being able to communicate their intended meaning and their perceives understanding of others' communication
Defines themselves by how others see them, and by others’ validation
Creates a disharmonious and tense atmosphere, sometimes tremendously so (they have a bigger influence over others than most, so when they're upset, it often really affects everyone nearby)
Needs to find self-love – falls into patterns of self-loathing which leads to loathing of all and society
Gives away or takes too much power in relationships, creating imbalanced partnerships
Loss of self as they crumble under the weight of others' expectations
Becomes manipulative
Masculine and feminine energy out of balance or one lost entirely
Creates codependent and stagnant relationships
Winter
In Balance Qualities
Good at pausing, thinking, and taking time for reflection before acting
Easily lets go of the old to happily embrace the new
Takes time to ensure alignment with sense of self and to realign when necessary
Good at finding and implementing new wisdom
Easily surrenders to the will of the Universe
Enjoys spiritual teachings
Good at sacrifice when necessary and understands giving up something for something better, waiting longer for something better, etc.
Out of Balance Qualities
Stagnates, and they can take this to a very different degree than any other archetype. An out-of-balance Winter soul can stay stagnant for an entire lifetime
Holds onto things not meant for them and finds it impossible to let go, but often doesn't consider letting go in the first place
Self-sabotages with stubbornness and a tendency to be a martyr
Cannot make choices and stays stuck in indecision
Doesn't connect to their inner talents or skills, even if they know about them
Guided by the purely animal part of their brain
The Stallion
In Balance Qualities
Often victorious due to their sheer determination to go after what they want
Takes quick action and doesn't spend a lot of time waffling over what may be
Amazing at harnessing opposing energies or concepts and using them together in successful ways
Often successful, confident, and in control
Great business owners, innovators, creators - anyone whom we need to be able to reach entirely new heights. The Stallion is great at creating completely new things and starting from scratch, often out of pure determination and willpower
Hard-headed but in a way which works for everyone - The Stallion will take the hits for their whole team but keep the team moving all the same
Out of Balance Qualities
Instead of in control they become extremely controlling
Becomes sure and adamant that their way is the only way, and will become hostile and aggressive to those who say otherwise
Show a lack of energetic focus and lack of self-discipline
Rushes forward constantly with no idea of where they're going
Completely ignores the needs and ideas of others, knows they’re doing so and does not care
The Loner
In Balance Qualities
Ensures their schedule is not so busy that they do not have much-needed time alone
Makes time for meditation, inner reflection, and contemplation
Finds spiritual mentors and often becomes a spiritual mentor for others
Easily finds their own inner guide because they’re great at soul-searching
Incredibly wise, especially because they have almost no concerns about what society thinks
Out of Balance Qualities
Withdraws from loved ones and society completely
Feels left out without making attempts to connect themselves
Intentionally creates loneliness and isolation, sometimes to the extreme (think going off the grid)
Constantly yearns for healing which is seemingly out of reach
Becomes jealous of others, especially those who do "fit in"
The Trickster
In Balance Qualities
Easily handles change, even when it reaches the levels of upheaval and chaos
Allows for revelations, deep change, and inner awareness at all times - despite being slippery and tricky, The Trickster is also incredibly wise!
Easy to awaken as they allow for new awareness and perspectives
Handles destruction well and knows they can rebuild at any time
Intelligent and often knows how to speak as intelligently as they are, so they can uniquely spread their messages, often without what we would normally think of as charisma
Likes to be useful and of service to humanity, even if they would never want anyone to know that
Out of Balance Qualities
Refuses to change and/or intense fear of change
Avoids personal evolution and awareness which would lead to inner change
Feels like everything is about averting disaster
Lives in denial
Feels completely alone in the world (sadly, The Trickster often feels this way when in-balance, too)
The Youthful
In Balance Qualities
Effortlessly handles and creates new beginnings
Sees the world as pure potential and excitement, and sees people for their most exciting and potential-filled selves
Adventurous and enthusiastic
Easy to awaken because of extreme lack of ego
Easily connects to innocence and optimism which allows them to live as if unburdened by past experience, *even if they have had a very difficult experience.* The Youthful lives as if life is good, no matter what life has actually dealt them, and this is an incredibly beautiful quality
Out of Balance Qualities
Naivete, sometimes extreme and puts them in danger
Rash and impulsive choice
Rushing into things without proper experience, even attempting to put together livelihood or business for which one does not have the necessary experience
Analyzing a situation until they cannot move on it
Assuming they have all the answers when maybe they haven’t done enough research or put in enough work
To Make it Even More Complicated
We don’t just have one archetype, at least not the vast majority of the time. Each of us has three, and I’ve grown accustomed to putting them in these little pie charts so we can see how they affect us.
My soul archetype chart looks like this:
Each of these affects me like we would think they would, and on a scale as this implies. When I am in-balance or out-of-balance, I am by far most likely to be so as a Nurturer. When I go out-of-balance, I shut down, I feel as though nothing will ever be okay emotionally again, and I neglect myself and everyone I know. Luckily, I have a job which makes it so I work on my energetic systems more than most, and I tend to stay fairly in-balance (not always the case, but thank God is now). This means I can look at the good qualities of the Nurturer, the Alchemist, or the Lover, and try to empower them in myself. I know these things can’t be changed. I know I have in-balance qualities and out-of-balance qualities per these archetypes which I cannot ever get rid of. But that means if I start to feel myself becoming selfish about a situation, I can go, "Oh, my Alchemist is reacting right now, and I know this isn’t how I really feel." Each of my archetypes has the tendency to make an incredibly painful and disharmonious atmosphere when they are upset, so I know that for me personally, this is the first and most likely way I’m going to go out-of-balance. When I see that I am creating a tense atmosphere and other people are walking on eggshells, I know I’m out-of-balance, and I can right the ship faster.
In a lot of cases, our secondary and tertiary archetypes really help by balancing out our first. Every single combination is possible, which means there are souls whose entire pie chart is made up of Trickster qualities, or Ruler qualities, or any of the others. In thousands of readings and healing sessions, I've worked with four of these people, who had all one archetype. I've worked with many, many more who have one archetype doubled up in their chart. This ends up being less fortunate for the person, because the fewer out-of-balance qualities we have, the more extreme they seem to be.
For an example on this, my dad’s archetype pie chart looks like this: (he’s given me permission to use him as an example tons, mostly because he does not at all believe in what I do, lol)
Neither the Ruler nor the Alchemist goes out-of-balance by becoming depressed or emotionally exhausted or overwhelmed. This means quite literally, unless he were under some extreme psychic attack and carrying energy which didn't belong to him, (which I cannot imagine), my dad is actually incapable of becoming depressed. He simply does not have that out-of-balance quality available to him. It is not something he understands. When he goes out-of-balance, he becomes controlling. He becomes selfish and absolutely certain that he knows the right way, and so this is how me and my sister grew up! Even though now, we see him as an amazing dad who gave us boundaries and structure, and who was mostly in-balance, the times we used to remember from our childhood were mostly when he was out-of-balance, and it felt like a tyrant had taken over our home. But this is just how the Ruler behaves when out-of-balance. Because his first and secondary archetypes are the same, his negative Ruler qualities seemed even more extreme. This is what tends to happen when a person has fewer ways to go out-of-balance, those qualities are more prevalent to us (and the person enacting them).
I see a lot of cases where someone’s main archetype and their secondary archetypes really battle it out, and this leads to the most problems. For instance, I have many clients where their main archetype is one which is incredibly isolated, who needs time alone, who wants achievement and victory, etc. But what if one of those has a secondary archetype which won’t be able to feel complete unless they have a family? Who really needs love, closeness, and community? I have some clients whose main archetype is incredibly feminine and their secondary and tertiary more masculine. Some for whom their primary archetype and secondary archetypes are almost complete opposites, so one can have one archetype out-of-balance while the others are doing great.
Sometimes our archetypes are like oil and water inside us, feeling like they will never blend enough to make us feel good. But, we are the universe experiencing itself. Each of these blends of archetypes is a beautiful thing because it’s another way to know ourselves inside and out, know when we are in line with our highest self and being the best us we can put out, and know when we need some work to be who we want to be.
How to Use This
We can all recognize these qualities within ourselves. As a nurturer soul, when my energy goes out of balance, I become depressed, find it impossible to practice self-care or care of others, etc. Because I recognize this in myself, when I feel it beginning to happen, I can address the issues much sooner and get back to my nurturing, loving self. I don’t nail it every time - sometimes I find I am already deeply in a depression before I realize what has happened. But I nail it on as many days as possible, and this leads to being more in-balance in a more general sense. Many of my clients have expressed the same - knowing their soul archetypes helps them see that knowing how we behave when we are out-of-balance helps us naturally move back toward balance.
It also helps to know the in- and out-of-balance characteristics of your loved ones to practice compassion. My son is a Monk soul, which is incredibly different from any of my archetypes. He is 18 now, and I discovered the soul archetypes when he was 15. His entire life, I was amazed because I am fairly type A and have always had things under control, but he often acted as if I had not made plans with nearly enough care or time (I mean, he already acted like this when he was like 5-years-old). This always amazed me because he was never late, he had everything he needed - I could not understand why he felt as though I did not put enough effort into certain plans. Once I understood the difference in us archetypally, I could understand that this was because for his soul, he needs to plan things significantly further in advance than I do to feel comfortable. If I had understood this when he was younger, I could have been more accommodating and more understanding to why he felt like I was not making plans far enough in advance, and we could have argued about this less.
My mom is an Alchemist soul through and through, and it’s pretty much impossible to describe just how regularly this comes up between us. So much of the time, my mom assumes everyone thinks exactly like she does, and she’s very quick to assume what other people‘s motivations are for their behavior (based on what hers would be if she were doing what they are doing). I have to remind her that she’s being an Alchemist, and that everyone is starting from a different place and not everyone has the same motives as her. This is still very difficult for her to believe, but the soul archetypes have helped her come around and really see herself as an Alchemist as well. Now, when she's quick to say someone else is behaving in a certain way for a specific reason and she's sure of it, she takes a step back and goes, "Or maybe I'm being an Alchemist about this."
My dad is a double Ruler soul, as mentioned. Growing up, my sister and I felt so stifled, like we had absolutely no freedom, and like our world had an absurd number of boundaries and too much structure. Now I can see how for a Ruler soul, that was him being the best dad he could be. I am unbelievably grateful for his rules and structure now, and for the boundaries he taught me to have. Giving structure and boundaries to his children was, to him (and every Ruler soul), imperative. It’s really helped me understand all the ways we felt stifled as kids, and just appreciate him for the beautiful life he gave us.
This really extends to every area of my life now! Even when I see someone screaming at someone else in public, I can’t help but think about their soul archetype, and how many of the archetypes simply never get to that place. When I read or watch fiction, I can't help but think a character isn't a good, well-realized character unless they fit into one of these archetypes (because every human being does). When I watch reality TV, and especially competition shows, I can't help but note how *most* of the people who find their way to reality TV are Ruler or Stallion souls.
Where one archetype may feel like their world could simply never be complete unless they were able to have a family, and where one archetype will likely always define themselves by their partner, others can’t stand the idea of having a family, and yet others feel a desperate need for liberation in many partnerships. It’s just good to know. None is better than the other, each have their positives and their negatives. An archetype which may have extreme difficulty being human may have a much easier time on one of the other planets where we can incarnate, with different societal expectations. Understanding who we are and how we are likely to behave based on it is just one more way too show up to as many days as possible as our highest self.
Thanks for reading! If you want to confirm or know your soul archetypes, send me an email or a message on Etsy! I'll happily channel yours for you for free. :) I also have significantly more information channeled about each of these archetypes, such as how they can find closure, more about how they are as parents and partners, how they can connect to Spirit, some characters from books and movies who fit the archetype, and much more! If you'd like the info for yours, once again just message and I'll gladly send it over! The archetypes are so important to me and I love them so much - I'm happy to connect as many people as I can to them. <3